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Insomnia: What to try if you can’t sleep

Can't sleep at night
Can’t sleep at night

Every night, 30 to 45 per cent of the global adult population lies in bed wide-awake, struggling to get a good night’s rest, according to World Sleep Day.

Given that the recommended amount of sleep for adults is seven to eight hours a night, which accounts for almost one-third of our lives, sleep problems are now recognised by the World Association of Sleep Medicine as a global epidemic that threatens the health and quality of life for up to 45 per cent of the world’s population.

The average sleeper goes through various cycles of the two sleep phases in monophasic sleep: non-rapid eye movement (NREM) sleep, transitioning from light sleep to deep slumber, and rapid eye movement (REM) sleep where dreams occur. However, the sleep cycles of insomniacs are often irregular, skimming light sleep but rarely reaching REM sleep, resulting in restless, wakeful nights and daytime fatigue.

Fortunately, insomnia is treatable and here are three ways to get to sleep, depending on what type of insomniac you are…

Sleeping pills are only available by prescription here in Singapore so we’ve put together a list of some other over-the-counter and home remedies to try.

Start a sleep routine
The simplest and cheapest way to tackle insomnia.


1. Reserve the bed solely for sleep and sex; don’t eat, work or watch TV on the bed

2. Set a sleeping and waking time and stick to it, allowing only one to two additional hours on the weekends

3. Exercise regularly, preferably in the morning and never right before bedtime


1. Eat a heavy meal, or spicy or sugary food two hours before bedtime or you may experience heartburn, indigestion or an energy boost

2. Drink alcohol or caffeine four hours before bedtime

3. Lie in bed if you can’t get to sleep. Get up and do some light reading until you feel sleepy again

Get comfortable
A good pillow should provide adequate support for your head, neck and shoulders while you sleep. Natural filling such as goose down or feathers are best, complemented with pure cotton or silk ticking (outer fabric covering), as they allow air to circulate and keep the sleeper’s head and body cool throughout the night, says Yuliana Hendarto from Ploh. For extra fluffy pillows and crisp sheets, keep the room temperature cool or turn on the air-conditioning 15 minutes before bedtime.

Down it
Having a cup of chamomile tea 45 minutes before bed helps relieve mild insomnia as the chamomile flower contains relaxants and works as a natural sleep aid.

Root it out
Valerian root has been used as a natural supplement to relieve anxiety and promote sleep for centuries. While the dried raw root smells like stinky socks, extract of valerian root now comes in capsule and pill form and should be taken 30 minutes before bedtime as needed.

Oil up
Dr Bo Hendgen, founder of Absolute Essential suggests diffusing or applying lavender, chamomile or ylang ylang essential oils to pulse points such as the wrists and back of the neck to help support the natural sleep process while training the brain to identify bedtime.

Power nap
Skip the coffee break and try a power nap instead. According to researchers at Georgetown University, a 30-minute nap between 1pm and 3pm helps lower blood pressure, improves memory function and reduces stress. However, napping longer than 30 minutes or in the late afternoon would be counter-productive as it leads to sleep inertia, making you feel even more sluggish than before.

It doesn’t mean you have to sleep on the job though; a handful of wellness centres in the CBD such as Chop! Chop! Massage Expressor Skin Hub offer 30-minute power nap slots, complete with a bed, pillow and blanket. With enough luck, nobody will even notice you’re gone!


You’ve tried all the cures and gimmicks and are convinced science is the only thing that can help you now. Here are the professionals who can help.

The sleep centre
Dr Kenny Pang from the Asia Sleep Centre says that insomnia is not a diagnosis but a symptom of other underlying medical conditions such as obstructive sleep apnoea (breathing difficulty during sleep), stress or depression. When these causes are treated, sleep often improves.

A little omm goes a long way. Researchers at Harvard Medical School found that participants who practiced basic yoga moves – that can be learnt in just one training session – before bedtime had significantly improved sleep efficiency and total sleep time. Yoga loosens tight muscles, releases tension and puts you in a deep state of relaxation, stemming the flow of stress hormones. So roll out the yoga mat, even if it’s for one session to learn the basics.

Traditional Chinese Medicine (TCM)
In Chinese medicine, insomnia is the result of an imbalanced chi involving multiple organs and meridian systems such as the heart, liver, kidney and spleen in various combinations. Every individual suffering from insomnia has a different underlying chi problem and has to be treated differently with acupuncture sessions accompanied by herbal remedies over a period of three to six months.

Contrary to popular belief, people under hypnosis are fully aware of their surroundings and are in complete control while resting in a heightened state of physical and mental relaxation. When one is in a relaxed state of mind through hypnotic induction, the subconscious mind and brain waves can be reprogrammed for REM sleep, says Nancy Ho from the Regional Hypnosis Centre. Interestingly, an increasing number of sleep specialists are recommending hypnotherapy as an alternative to medication.

Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT)
In case you’re wary of seeing a psychiatrist know this, CBT has been proven effective in treating up to 80 per cent of insomniacs. They even maintained their sleep improvements for at least six months, according to a study by the American Academy of Sleep Medicine. You will be required to keep a detailed sleep log, based on which the psychiatrist will assess your condition and teach relaxation techniques. Therapy schedules can vary anywhere from weekly visits to monthly check-ins.

Sleep study
Chronic insomniacs who visit a sleep specialist to get a professional diagnosis will usually be put through a sleep study, also known as a polysomnography. Traditionally performed in a sleep laboratory where the patient has to be hooked up by wires to a monitoring device, sleep tests these days can be done at home using a Watch PAT device attached to the wrist for equally accurate results.

After determining the underlying causes of insomnia such as allergies, asthma, obstructive sleep apnoea or restless leg syndrome, these causes are first treated or reversed before medication is prescribed, says Dr Pang Yoke Teen from the Centre for Ear, Nose, Throat, Allergy and Snoring.


You need things – lots of things – so parting with your BlackBerry is totally out of the question. Here are various sleep-friendly gadgets you can add to your room that can help balance the constant buzzing and flashing of your handheld device.

White noise
According to the US National Sleep Foundation, noises lower than 40 decibels (such as a dripping tap) or higher than 70 decibels (your neighbour’s blaring stereo) can keep us awake. While there are fancy white noise generators such as the Marpac sound conditioner (US$59.95), using a fan or air-conditioner that generates constant, low frequency sound will work too.

As our body uses sunlight as a cue to regulate our sleep-wake pattern, using artificial light to adjust a mistimed body clock helps overcome sleeplessness. Shaped like a set of futuristic oversized glasses, the Re-Timer (A$273.90) fits over any glasses and only needs to be worn for 50 minutes up to three days for a noticeable effect. Frequent fliers who cross time zones can use it to reduce the effects of jet lag.

Sound Asleep pillow
Listening to 45 minutes of relaxing jazz, folk or classical music before bedtime will send you off to sleep faster than counting sheep, researchers at the National Taiwan University found. So create a suitable playlist and plug your iPod into a Sound Asleep pillow(£25). The hidden, built-in speakers in the pillow are for your ears only so you won’t disturb your sleeping partner. It also comes in a giant fleece blanket form if you want to snuggle up.

More isn’t necessarily better
The Singapore Sleep Society suggests that adults who routinely require more than 10 to 12 hours of sleep a night and yet still feel tired should seek medical attention, as the need for prolonged sleep may be an indicator of narcolepsy, a less common sleep disorder characterised by excessive daytime sleepiness and sleep attacks.

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